Greetings, ladies and gentlemen! Indian weddings are way more fascinating and fun than you can imagine. It unites the couple and their families for eternity with several rituals and minor ceremonies leading up to the main wedding day. We do follow traditions and rituals, but are we really aware of their logic and meaning?
So here are some crazy Indian wedding traditions
1. The wedding takes place on auspicious days!
Unlike western culture, weddings in India take place on selective days. To be precise, the people ask astrologers and numerologists to predict the auspicious date of the ceremony. Some people even contact priests to choose the best day for the wedding. Dates, it is said, also have an important part in the success of the wedding ceremony.
2. Deeper the color, deeper the love!
Everyone’s pretty aware of the belief – darker the color of the bride’s mehendi, the stronger will be the love of her husband. Another popular belief is that if the bride’s mehndi lasts longer than her fiancé’s, she will be adored by her in-laws! Weird, right? The actual reason for applying mehendi is that it calms the nerves and keeps the body at peace.
3. It’s your “ring” finger for a reason!
Surprisingly, it is said that engagement and wedding rings are worn on the fourth finger of left hand because the vein of the finger leads directly to the heart.
4. Do not lend your wedding outfit!
Why shouldn’t you lend your wedding outfit to anyone?
So the reason you are constantly discouraged from lending your wedding dress to someone is that while it may bring the borrower good luck, it may also bring bad luck to YOU. So, if you’re thinking about lending your wedding gown to someone else, we advise you to reconsider.
5. The system of dowry!
While the dowry system is illegal, many regions of the nation still see the groom getting large amounts of money from the bride’s family. The bride’s parents are forced to offer something to the groom, sometimes out of obligation, sometimes out of affection. Well well, it’s 2022, and can we please be done with this already?
6. Black and white are strictly forbidden!
Your relatives may have asked you not to wear white and black on special occasions like weddings. Wearing black or white at a Hindu wedding is considered unlucky. Today, however, other shades of white are very trendy, and many modern brides prefer white lehengas or sarees with colorful borders and embellishments.
7. Bride and groom are supposed to carry knives!
Some Hindu households follow the tradition of handing the bride & groom a knife or other sharp metal object to carry with them at all times from the moment they are engaged until the wedding day. This is to safeguard them from unwanted attention or approaches, and it is a little-known Indian wedding ritual.
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8. The ritual of pulling the groom’s nose!
It is a tradition in which the groom is welcomed by his mother-in-law, who first performs aarti and then pulls the groom’s nose playfully. This is known as ponkhana in Gujarati weddings. It is a fun way for the bride’s family to remind the groom that he has come to marry their daughter and that he must learn to be humble and appreciative.
9. A sindoor worn by a married woman!
A married lady must wear sindoor because it has a physiological significance that few are aware of. This is because sindoor is made by combining turmeric, lime, and the element mercury. Mercury’s inherent qualities, in addition to managing blood pressure, increase the desire for sex.
10. The seven steps of promise!
These seven steps are also referred to as “Saat Phere” in which the bride and groom are expected to take rounds around the holy pyre (Agni). Following the seven rounds, they seek the blessings of Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi to protect them for the rest of their lives. The pair is believed to have tied themselves together for the next seven lifetimes. This portion appears only once throughout the wedding.
11. The significance of chooda!
The bride’s “Chooda” or bangles, are the most essential aspect of an Indian wedding. In humans, the hands are usually always functioning, and it is also used to check for pulse beats. It is a collection of 21 bangles in red and white color that represent good luck for newlyweds.
12. Stealing the groom’s shoes!
The most fun ceremony is when the bride’s sister-in-law steals the groom’s shoes and demands a large ransom in exchange for the shoes on the wedding day. The groom’s friends and cousins make every effort to find the shoes. No groom ever disappoints the bride’s sister on a special day, so he makes her happy by giving her shagun.
13. The bride’s right foot!
In the commonly followed Hindu ritual, the bride must enter the house with her right foot first, which she will use to delicately knock over a jug full of rice that has been intentionally put there to ensure good luck and prosperity for her new family.
14. The tradition of kanyadaan!
This is an extremely auspicious ritual and the bride’s parents are fortunate to be able to perform it. Kanyadaan means completing all customs and procedures to give the bride to the groom. Donation of cows and daughters, in general, bring enormous wealth to the family. This is why it is significant in Indian weddings.
15. The bidaai of the bride!
It is the most touching moment of the wedding. When the Indian wedding is over and the bride and her life partner are ready to leave. Many cultures think that the more the bride cries at bidaai, the happier her life will be.
A combination of these events genuinely contributes to the overall success of the wedding ceremony. Above all, we want to emphasize that marriages founded on love, trust, and understanding will always endure a lifetime.
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